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Can You Be Both Happy and Wealthy at the Same Time?



It is rare, but there are some people who are both happy and wealthy. The rest of us have unconscious beliefs that we can't be happy, can't be wealthy or can't be both. Take a look at your life & question it:
Do you think of the wealthy as unhappy in life?Is it better to be poor and happy than wealthy?Are the poor really happy?Are the poor living their life purposes?Does God want you to be unhappy & poor?
In The Secret Code of Success, Noah St John refers to the "Three Percenters" as the world's most successful people.
He says they "have most of the wealth, happiness, joy, peace, health, and loving relationships- in other words, they have what we human beings want as we go through this journey called Life."
How does that make you feel? That a small group of people have it all, and we are struggling, working hard, and stuck in poverty?
This small percentage of people on earth realize they can be both happy & wealthy. And they do it without really knowing how they do it.
They work hard, but are happy and earning money. While the rest of us work hard, are unhappy and struggling to pay bills.
I admit I am in the 97% who is not both happy & wealthy. I realize I'm not both. I realize there are others who are both. And I realize if they can do it, then I can to. So I have been investing in a lot of personal development. I look for mentors who came from poverty and are on their way to the 3% or in the 3%. You can find people a little ahead of you and you can help people who are not yet where you are.
The key is you have to want to change and do the work. And the people you help need to also want to change and do the work.
Noah St John says that we "need to realize that it (wealth, health, happiness, joy, love, opportunity) is not actually held anywhere. No one can keep love, money, or opportunity away from you, any more than someone can stop you from reaching your full potential."
I think most of us are stuck in a learned victim state. It is what we learned, what our parents learned, what our ancestors learned. 97% of people learned this and pass it on.
To change it, we need to take responsibility for our beliefs and do the work to change them. Sometimes this isn't easy when most of the people you are around are in this victim state... and sabotage themselves and others around them to keep everyone in this 97% state.
I don't think people are aware of how they sabotage themselves and others. They may try to protect others from the big bad guys. They may think others are out to get them instead of helping them.
There are good and bad guys out there. Do you recognize the good?
Even the bad have good in them. They have lost their way in their life pain & purposes and are using for bad instead of good.
We all have pain from childhood & life. We can use that for good. It is usually what we need to heal in our lives that we are meant to help others with.
According to Noah St. John, There are stages we go through:
You don't know what you don't know. You know that you don't know. You know that you know. You do it without conscious thought
We breathe without thinking about it. We do it without conscious thought. So we can be happy and wealthy like the 3% without thinking about it. But it takes work and action to change our unconscious beliefs. By changing these beliefs we will take different actions. And therefore we will have different results.
Bernice Templeman is an author, internet marketer and network marketer.
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Realizing you are not going to be promoted, how to determine if you are truly happy where you are in


life





You will want to consider that there are a lot of reasons why a person is promoted and there are a lot



of reasons why a person is not being promoted. Often you may think that your promotion is



justifiable, but then you have to think that there are things that you just can’t control. First, it may just



not be the right time for the company to do promotions and clean house. You will find that a lot of



times when a business is doing so well they aren’t into promotions because they think that they have



a winning team, however, if there are some loose ends the company will boast some people up in



the ranks in efforts to make the business stronger. Then there are things like seniority that you’ll have



to take inconsideration. Just because you are good at your job doesn’t mean that you deserve the



promotion, while there are others who do fine work and have been with the company for years longer.



You will need to realize that there are many reasons why you are not being promoted.





Once you realize why you may not get promoted you will then need to make a decision. You’ll want



to give yourself a lot of time to think about this, because you don’t want to make any rash decisions.



You will want to make sure that you consider doing everything you can to make your career move



forward. Sometimes you just need to talk about your feelings and insecurities with your boss. Then



you’ll be able to understand where you stand with the company. You may also want to consider



quitting.





If you feel that you have gotten as far as you can go with this company, then you will need to assess



rather or not you will be able to quit or simply start looking else where. You will want to consider that



that boss shouldn’t be informed until you have made the decision on rather or not you are staying.



You’ll need to keep in mind that there are many factors that will keep you at a job, but if you are not



personally happy, then it’s really not worth it. You’ll need to figure out something.





If you really are considering quitting, you have to ask yourself if this is just your way of throwing a



temper tantrum. This could be something that you are feeling right now, but this is not something that



you should consider if you don’t feel negative on an overall spectrum. You’ll need to keep in mind



that there are a lot of people who ask for more respect and they end up getting less. It all depends



on what is important to you and also what it is that you are lacking with your current job.





You’ll want to make a list of things that you like and a list of things that make you want to walk away.



You will find that this exercise will help you to determine rather or not you are ready for this move



and also it will help you to gain some clarity. This way you will be able to make a educational move



that you won’t end up regretting. You will also want to take some time and realize what it is that you



can do in order to be happier at work. It is very important that you learn how to be happy with



yourself and your work process, but it is so just as important to understand that you need to go after



things that are important to you and not settle.




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